So your efforts have paid off and the girl of your dreams has not only noticed you but also agreed to go on a date with you! Good going mate! But remember your first date behaviour is important, as how you behave on your first date will ensure whether you will get a second and a third date with her! So here's how you can go about making your first date, memorable and second-dateworthy!
Be on time: If you have agreed to pick her up, be there on time. She might keep you waiting, but grin and bear, after all it’s a woman’s privilege to keep her guy waiting! But your coming on time will impress her and she will count you as a reliable guy. Also wear a watch, you might have your cell for the time, but wearing a watch and that too a decent brand will say something to her about your personal style and will convey the message of the importance you attach to time. If you are going to her house to pick her up, then your date isn’t a secret, then your punctuality will make an impression on her parents as well, as older people give a lot of importance to such matters.
Be generous with compliments: As soon as she steps out, pay her a compliment. But be warned, do not overdo it or it will ring false. Make it genuine and let it come from the heart. Another point to note, don’t make very obvious comments, try and be a little clever. For eg: Tell her how well she carries herself and how she stands out in the crowd! Genuine compliments delivered with panache will stay in her mind for a long time. Otherwise the your-eyes-are-beautiful kind of compliments will be forgotton, because she’s sure to have heard it before!
Remember her choices: Suppose the two of you go for a long drive and then park for ice-cream, let her stay in the car and you surprise her by getting her favourite flavour. This will not only floor her but will also make you seem like a guy who cared enough to remember. A good cement for further bonding!
Be a good listener: Pay attention to what she is saying. Listen intently, ask the right questions. Don’t interrupt when she is speaking. In short, give undivided attention. Look into her eyes when she is talking, but in a dreamy way, don’t stare, you will scare her! When she is saying something cute, touch her hands lightly and smile. When she says something funny, compliment her sense of humour. You will soon have her eating out of your hands!
Don’t show off: You might be having the cushiest job, or the richest parents or the swankiest car, whatever, but don’t show off. Girls get put off by arrogance and show offs. Be modest. Be courteous. Be chivalrous. These matter far more than all your wealth!
Keep a distance: Don’t get too personal on your first date. Also keep your hands to yourself. Wait to get to know her better. And if you wish to hold her hand ask for permission. If you act too fresh on the first date, chances are you will never see her again!
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